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Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaks
they deserve?
By Professor Richard Wiseman, University of Hertfordshire
A psychologist says he has discovered the answer:
Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some
people are always in the right place at the right time, while others
consistently experience ill fortune. I placed advertisements in
national newspapers asking for people who felt consistently lucky or
unlucky to contact me.
Hundreds of extraordinary men and women volunteered for my research
and over the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives
and had them take part in experiments.
The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight
into the causes of their luck, their thoughts and behavior are
responsible for much of their good and bad fortune. Take the case of
seemingly chance opportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter
such opportunities, whereas unlucky people do not.
I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to
differences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both
lucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through
it and tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly
placed a large message halfway through the n ewspaper saying: "Tell
the experimenter you have seen this and win £250."
This message took up half of the page and was written in type that
was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in
the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it and the lucky
people tended to spot it. Unlucky people are generally more tense
than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice
the unexpected.
As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on
looking for something else. They go to parties intent on finding
their perfect partner and so miss opportunities to make good friends.
They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job
advertisements and miss other types of jobs.
Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is
there rather than just what they are looking for. My research
eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four
principles. They are skilled at creating and noticing chance
opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition,
create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and
adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.
Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles
could be used to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to
spend a month carrying out exercises designed to help them think and
behave like a lucky person.
Dramatic results These exercises helped them spot chance
opportunities, listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be
more resilient to bad luck. One month later, the volunteers returned
and described what had happened. The results were dramatic: 80% of
people were now happier, more satisfied with their lives and, perhaps
most important of all, luckier.
The lucky people had become even luckier and the unlucky had become
lucky. Finally, I had found the elusive "luck factor"
Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right
2) Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
4) Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting or
telephone call. Luck is very often a self- fulfilling prophecy
Have a Lucky day and work for it.
